As I mentioned in how to navigate negative emotions about your spouse, ensuring that your ARE committed to your marriage is incredibly vital in successfully solving the problems between you. For many of us the novelty of finally having a life-partner, a family of our own and a place to call home, has lost itβs charm and appeal.
Diving head-first into huge, life-changing commitments with the only preparation being a big wedding, beautiful dress and the perfect honeymoon, was always going to be challenging.
With time having a habit of flying by, the pressure to have whatever is deemed #couplegoals in the latest Netflix shows, movies, celeb world and on social media, and the fact that raising children and building a strong marriage are the hardest thing youβll ever do, itβs very easy to lose your zeal and commitment.
So, before you can resolve the problems with your spouse, you have to know that so long as there is no serious mental disorders and abusive behaviour, you CAN build a strong relationship. Notice I didnβt say the relationship of your dreams, because your dreams are made of Disney, Netflix and edited, smoothed, filtered and cherry-picked imagery. Those are NOT healthy dreams so let it go and mentally re-commit to your marriage.